24 Hour In-Home Care: When Living with Mom Just Won’t Work

a-1 domestic elder care cailforniaSooner or later, many adults have to come face-to-face with the inevitable fact that their elderly parents will need some kind of care, but this poses as a special challenge for those who have difficult parents to deal with.  Perhaps you tried your best by adding an addition to your home so that your parent can live with you, but in a room that’s entirely separated from the rest of the house.  But your parent insists that she move in with you, meaning that she wants to stay in the same living quarters with you, share the same kitchen, bathroom and other common areas with the rest of the family.  If you are faced with this predicament, what can you do?  How do you cope with your own emotions and protect the welfare of your family?  In this article, A-1 Home Care in Century City will throw out some suggestions that may work for you.

Establish Your Boundaries

A-1 Home Care acknowledges that you love your parents dearly, otherwise you wouldn’t be struggling with this conflict like you are right now.  It’s hard to find the right middle ground where you are balancing self-care with elder care without a trace of guilt.  Wouldn’t it be so much easier if your elderly parent were loveable and easy to get along with?  There’s no use in fighting what you can’t control, so what can you control?  If it’s hard enough as it is right now to establish boundaries with your parents while they are living in their own home, imagine how hard that will be if they move in with you.  The least you can do for yourself is hire a 24 hour caregiver for your elderly parents so that you are killing two birds with one stone – your parents’ daily needs are met and your own emotional health is preserved.  A-1 Home Care will be here when you are ready to take that bold step.

Reliable In-Home Care, 24 Hours a Day

Although your Mom or Dad insists on living with you, you know in your heart of hearts that it just won’t work.  A-1 Home Care knows that staying with a live-in caregiver is probably not your elderly loved ones’ first choice, but wouldn’t that be better than consigning them to a nursing or convalescent home?  Life isn’t fair.  You don’t always get what you want, but you can try your best to make sure that every single person’s needs are taken care of, including your own.  A-1 Home Care offers affordable 24 hour senior care, and for over two decades, our loveable, highly skilled companion care aides have won the hearts of seniors and their families all over LA County.  They become a part of your family as they care for seniors with Alzheimer’s, Parkinson’s, Multiple Sclerosis, Heart Disease, Kidney Care, and other conditions.  Your elderly loved ones still get to live in the familiarity of their surroundings while receiving top-notch in-home care assistance with cooking, cleaning, personal care, medication reminders, transportation to appointments in Century City and more.

About A-1 Home Care

Since its inception in 1991, A-1 Home Care has been delivering exceptional senior care services to communities all over Century City.  As one of the few state-licensed agencies in California, A-1 Home Care ensures senior safety and wellness by thoroughly screening every caregiver for their criminal background check, DMV records and sex offender checks.  All professional references are verified.  The advantage of hiring a live-in caregiver from an agency is that we do all the legwork for you, and even if you tried to do it on your own, the Department of Justice would not send someone’s criminal background report to private families.  They only send it to qualifying agencies like licensed, bonded and insured home care companies, schools and other government agencies.  Our 24 hour care services and live-out caregiver services are covered by most long term insurance carriers and veteran benefits.

For quality senior care, call A-1 Home Care (310) 657-8780 or visit www.centurycityhomecare.com for services in Century City, Culver City, Beverly Hills, Hollywood, Malibu, Manhattan Beach and surrounding areas. 

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